| I am fairly certain that both men and women alike have mused over the idea, which is indeed an obvious fact, of why the constructs of this world (the scales of fairness) tilt to favor men. The libra of judgement, of equality... that women, time and again, find themselves always having to adjust their life, their time, their emotions, and essentially every other facet of their existence to adapt to the comfort of the opposite sex. This topic was explored in several movies, sitcoms, documentaries, books and still while some people would beg to differ, I have realized that this generalization stands true to most women's life. We unconsciously... or consciously cater to them, adapt our lives to theirs, mold ourselves to fit into their world better. It is rarely the other way around, and I'll tell you why. It is purely a sexual energetic phenomenon. Think about the woman's anatomy in sex, she is the receiver and her body is made in a way to hold the form of the man who enters her. She grips him, adapt to him, shapes herself around him. This is biological, we didn't make up the rules, but wait - there's more! Even though a woman's body is made to be able to have multiple orgasms, the the entire sexual act is in a man's hands to begin and to end. It is solely determined by the erect nature of a phallus. The magic wand... so to speak. And how well he controls it. See, most men let the wand control them. Like amateur or even corrupt wizards would. But there are the rare few that have mastered control over these wands and orchestrate a long, slow and purely selfless piece in which this wizard makes music - the sighs and moans of his woman - for hours on end. Perfect. See, what most people forget about in sex is that it isn't just a 20 minute wrestle, a few thrusts, a few grunts and boom, man dictates when it finishes for his lack of self control. It is a musical composition. An art. And if two lovers are really in sync, a meditation. A woman's body is an instrument. If it is indeed a man world, and he was GIFTED with the power of being the composer, then fucking hell, why not be the best composer you can be? Learn to play this instrument instead of being intimidated by it. What's extraordinary about Man is that through selfless giving to his Woman (in all aspects of life) he evolves spiritually and receives the utmost satisfaction, sexually as well, when he learns to compose a piece worth playing. A symphony is an experience, not something that begins to end shortly after. There are stages to it, it builds, it tightens and releases. But upon the first release, the music does not end. In fact, it is only beginning. Well, it's almost comical that our roles as men and women are dictated by our sexual anatomy, and the energetics behind sex. Because the man's ability to cum rules dominion over the dance between the feminine and masculine, I should rightly expect more from all you men. And not to mention, you women. I'll devote another article entirely to the powers and gifts of the feminine. But in any case, regarding my personal life - I sure as hell won't settle for anything less than a grand symphony. |
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All In
9/11/2014 06:22:12 pm
Beautifully written, as always Dorrina, and these wise web of words that you weave is both sensually instructive and suggestively insightful. You've aroused my intellect once again. I see where you are coming from, although I have found that in my life and my experiences as a man, (limited as they may be) that many of the 'sacrifices' in my relationships including my marriage have been made by me as well, both sexually and otherwise. While I agree and feel confident that many women suffer from inequality in their stereotypical love relationships, my belief is that the tides have changed. So, we are not bound to this metaphor, and I hope to get you to see that your strength as a woman has a different face then men's strength, but you have power and control as much as we do.
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Dorrina
9/15/2014 01:48:05 pm
I enjoyed reading your reply All In. I must agree with a lot of what you say. There is always many ways of looking at one piece of art, isn't there? ;)
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